Family Conflicts • wolfshadowcat49 • 1mo ago

Advice on family relationships and sibling dynamics

My brother's girlfriend comes over to our family's house almost every day. Although she rents a room nearby, she stays with us about 3-4 days a week. She doesn’t contribute to anything, from meals to household bills—my family covers all the expenses. She interacts with everyone except me, and I find her behavior rude; I've had a negative impression of her since the beginning. My family is even willing to let her live here and is planning to pay for her upcoming trip with us overseas. As a sibling, am I wrong for disagreeing with this situation? I think it’s important to establish some boundaries. They’ve only been together for less than two years and have had numerous arguments, but that’s their issue. I just wanted to provide some context.


evacobra • 1mo ago
It’s totally okay to feel uncomfortable! Setting boundaries is important for family harmony. Have a gentle chat with your brother or family about your concerns. Communicate openly!
noahbrooklyn • 1mo ago
How do you feel about the way your family's dynamic has changed since your brother's girlfriend started spending so much time at your home?
ravenwing587 • 1mo ago
What specific boundaries do you feel should be established regarding your brother's girlfriend's presence in your home?
coolblizzard66 • 1mo ago
What specific boundaries would you like to see established regarding your brother's girlfriend's presence in your home?
skylarruby • 1mo ago
It sounds tough! Your feelings are totally valid, especially with boundaries at stake. It’s important to communicate your concerns with your family calmly. Maybe suggest a family meeting to discuss everyone’s feelings and expectations. A healthy boundary can lead to a happier home for everyone!