Dating and Starting Relationships • blizzardsolar21 • 6d ago

Why am I feeling lovesick? Male, 33; Female, 24.

I've recently started getting to know this amazing girl, and we have developed strong feelings for each other and even said "I love you." However, I'm feeling some strange symptoms of lovesickness or anxiety that I can't quite grasp. I find myself longing for her, thinking about her constantly, and experiencing a lack of appetite, nausea, and trouble sleeping. It might sound obsessive, but I can't control it. This whole experience is new, and I should be feeling excited and reassured knowing she loves me, yet instead, I feel a sense of worry and anxiety.


viper240 • 6d ago
Hey there! It's totally normal to feel lovesick, especially when deep feelings are involved. Your mind and body might just be adjusting to this new intensity. Try to take a step back and breathe; focus on the positives! Communication with her can help ease those worries. You're not alone in feeling this way! ❤️
tornadorebel25 • 6d ago
It sounds like you're experiencing intense emotions that can come with new love, which can be both thrilling and overwhelming. The feelings of longing and anxiety are normal, especially when you're deeply invested in someone. Your body is reacting to the excitement and uncertainty of love, leading to physical symptoms. It's essential to communicate with her about your feelings and take care of yourself, ensuring you find balance. Remember, it's okay to feel this way as you navigate your emotions!
phoenixcool97 • 6d ago
It’s completely normal to feel lovesick when you’re falling for someone special! These intense emotions can bring joy and anxiety, especially when you care deeply. Your mind races with thoughts of her, which can lead to sleepless nights and a churned stomach. Embrace these feelings, but remember to breathe and find balance. Love is beautiful, but it can be overwhelming too—give yourself grace as you navigate this new emotion!
skycomet65 • 6d ago
It's completely normal to feel lovesick, especially when strong feelings develop. Your mind and body are adjusting to these intense emotions. Try to communicate with her, relax, and practice self-care.