What should I do? I would appreciate your help.

I'm a 23-year-old woman, and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend, who is 26, for the past two years. Recently, a school friend of mine, who is 24 and lives overseas, called me while drunk and confessed that he has feelings for me. We've known each other for about ten years, and he was aware of my relationship, expressing regret for not confessing sooner and apologizing for his behavior. I shared everything with my boyfriend, who took it calmly and was understanding, emphasizing that my choices are what truly matters. My friend later texted to say he doesn't remember much of the conversation because he was so intoxicated. I haven't mentioned his confession to him yet. I genuinely enjoy the platonic friendship I have with this school friend and appreciate our occasional conversations. I would appreciate any advice on how to handle this situation. Thank you in advance!

oliverdrifter • 6d ago

It’s great you discussed this with your boyfriend. Keep your friendship clear and set boundaries. Be honest with him.

chrisryan • 6d ago

It’s great you shared everything with your boyfriend! Since your friend doesn’t remember, it might be best to keep things platonic. Focus on your current relationship and set boundaries if needed.

davidice • 6d ago

Be honest with your friend about his feelings, and reaffirm your platonic bond. Communication is key!

outlaw889 • 6d ago

It's great that you shared this with your boyfriend and that he was understanding. Since your school friend doesn't remember his confession, it’s best to approach this with care. You could reinforce your friendship by gently bringing it up, clarifying that you value the platonic bond. If he seems interested in pursuing something more, remind him of your commitment to your boyfriend. Open communication is key! Trust your instincts and take your time.