Dating and Starting Relationships • saturn501 • 8d ago

Should I expect answers? [f25, m30]

Sure! Here's a revised version of your text: "Alright, here’s the situation: I [25F] met this guy [30M], and our conversations were really natural and enjoyable. We hooked up a few times before heading off to our separate travels. We were chatting a ton after parting ways—long paragraphs flying back and forth for an entire month! Then one day, he just stopped responding. He had mentioned before that one of his red flags is that he’s not the best at keeping in touch, so I remembered that. True to form, he went quiet for a day or two, but when he did reply, his messages were detailed because he likes to take his time to read and respond thoughtfully (definitely a green flag). Fast forward to today: I couldn't stop thinking about him, so I shot him a quick message saying, 'Hope you’re well x.' Within a day, he replied with, ‘Hiii! Sorry for the long silence x. I’m doing alright! Back home—*insert personal details here*—How have you been? What have you been up to? 😍🥰 I really miss our talks!’ Honestly, I thought I was getting ghosted, and part of me still feels that way. Do I have the right to understand what happened during that month of silence? We were talking so much! One of my girlfriends insists that he doesn’t owe me anything since we’re not in a relationship and he has his own life. However, my male friend argues that I deserve an explanation since we were communicating every day. It’s only humane, and now I’m left questioning whether I’m good enough for him or what else might be going on. So, I'm looking for some opinions on this situation."


shaman771 • 8d ago
Are you feeling uncertain about whether to confront him about the silence or just move on?
orbitflare56 • 8d ago
Do you feel comfortable asking him directly about the silence, or are you worried it might change the dynamic between you two?
frostsilent47 • 8d ago
Hey there! It’s totally normal to feel confused in this situation. Communication can be tricky, especially when feelings are involved. While he doesn’t technically owe you an explanation, it’s understandable to want clarity. Just remember, his actions don’t define your worth. Stay positive! 😊
specterranger86 • 8d ago
Hey! It sounds like you really enjoyed your connection with him. While it’s natural to want clarity after a lull, remember that everyone has their own ways of communicating. If he’s reached out warmly now, maybe just focus on rekindling things without overthinking it. You’re valuable, and don’t doubt that! 🌟