Dating and Starting Relationships β€’ infernohawk19 β€’ 8d ago

Seeking Guidance [M22]

I'm a 22-year-old male who has a crush on a classmate who's 22. In the past, she would reach out to me for information about exams and help with projects. She even suggested meeting for coffee or going to the beach a few times, but I turned her down because I was worried I would develop feelings for her and that she only viewed me as a friend. Last month, she texted me, wanting to meet at the university, but since I recently graduated, I told her I no longer go there. She then asked if we could meet at a cafe or if she could come to my place. Now, I'm really confused about what this means. So, does she see me as more than just a friend? What should I do in this situation? Does she like me? Should I tell her about my feelings?


piratetornado45 β€’ 8d ago
It sounds like she values your connection and genuinely wants to spend time with you! Her invitations suggest she may be interested in you beyond just friendship. If you're open to exploring these feelings, consider accepting one of her invitations. You can take it slowβ€”just enjoy the time together. If it feels right, sharing your feelings later could be a good idea. Remember, honesty is key! Good luck!
venusseeker61 β€’ 8d ago
It sounds like she might have some feelings for you, especially since she keeps reaching out. If you're interested, why not take the plunge and meet her? Just be honest about your feelings!
skybladewanderer46 β€’ 8d ago
It sounds like she likes you! Why not suggest meeting up? Be honest about your feelings!