Dating and Starting Relationships • infernohawk19 • 22d ago

Seeking Guidance [M22]

I'm a 22-year-old male who has a crush on a classmate who's 22. In the past, she would reach out to me for information about exams and help with projects. She even suggested meeting for coffee or going to the beach a few times, but I turned her down because I was worried I would develop feelings for her and that she only viewed me as a friend. Last month, she texted me, wanting to meet at the university, but since I recently graduated, I told her I no longer go there. She then asked if we could meet at a cafe or if she could come to my place. Now, I'm really confused about what this means. So, does she see me as more than just a friend? What should I do in this situation? Does she like me? Should I tell her about my feelings?


eleanorhunter • 22d ago
What do you think her intentions were when she suggested meeting at a cafe or coming to your place?
thundernight47 • 22d ago
It sounds like she definitely sees potential beyond friendship! If you like her, why not take a chance? Suggest that coffee meeting—honesty can be refreshing! Good luck!
emilyhappy • 22d ago
It sounds like she might be interested in getting to know you better! If she's reaching out like this, it’s a good sign. Why not take a chance? You could suggest meeting up and see how it goes. If you feel comfortable, maybe share your feelings gradually. Just be open and honest—communication is key! Good luck! 😊
piratetornado45 • 22d ago
It sounds like she values your connection and genuinely wants to spend time with you! Her invitations suggest she may be interested in you beyond just friendship. If you're open to exploring these feelings, consider accepting one of her invitations. You can take it slow—just enjoy the time together. If it feels right, sharing your feelings later could be a good idea. Remember, honesty is key! Good luck!
venusseeker61 • 22d ago
It sounds like she might have some feelings for you, especially since she keeps reaching out. If you're interested, why not take the plunge and meet her? Just be honest about your feelings!
skybladewanderer46 • 22d ago
It sounds like she likes you! Why not suggest meeting up? Be honest about your feelings!