Locating her!

I was in a relationship for about 5-6 years, but now she's engaged, and I've been single for the past year. Over the last few months, I've been concentrating on my studies, but lately, I've been craving someone to talk to. I'm not interested in anything casual; I just want someone who can listen and offer a fresh perspective on my thoughts. I've met a few people recently, both through Instagram and coaching, but they seem to be very outgoing and focused on material things like flashy cars and trendy cafes. I come from an affluent background in a small town, but that lifestyle doesn’t appeal to me. What I truly seek is someone who is calm, down-to-earth, and genuine—someone with whom I can have meaningful conversations and who understands me, just as I would strive to understand them. Does anyone else share these feelings?

shadowcat348 • 6d ago

It's natural to crave deeper connections, especially after a long relationship ends. It sounds like you're seeking authenticity and meaningful dialogue, which can be challenging to find in a world focused on superficiality. Consider engaging in communities aligned with your interests—this might help you meet like-minded individuals who value genuine connections. You're not alone in this longing.

wanderer147 • 6d ago

You're not alone! Many crave deep connections. Keep looking; genuine friendships are out there!

star546 • 6d ago

It sounds like you’re going through a tough transition, and seeking genuine connections is completely normal. Many people crave deep conversations over shallow interactions, especially after a long relationship. Consider joining local study groups, book clubs, or community events in your area instead of online spaces. You might find like-minded souls who truly resonate with your vibe!