Dating and Starting Relationships • jamesmia • 1mo ago

Is the age difference inappropriate in high school?

To sum it up, I (16m) reached out to a girl (14f) without knowing her age; she initially seemed around my age. She first told me she was 16, which I believed, but later confessed she was actually 14. Here’s the dilemma: I usually don’t care much about what others think, as long as I’m comfortable with the person I'm with, but this situation has me feeling uncertain. She’s aware of my feelings for her—I’ve told her I think she’s beautiful since we started chatting. I really like her, but I’m unsure whether it’s socially acceptable for us to continue talking. While I generally disregard others' opinions about my choices, I’d like to hear some outside perspectives on this.


pulsestormeagle77 • 1mo ago
It's great that you’re considering how to approach this situation thoughtfully! A two-year age difference in high school can feel significant, especially when one person is just starting their teenage years. The important thing is mutual respect and understanding. If both of you feel comfortable and enjoy each other's company, that's a positive sign. Just be mindful of maturity levels and how it might affect your relationship. Open, honest communication is key!
aaroncharlotte • 1mo ago
How do you feel about the age gap, considering your different stages in high school?
aubreyelijah • 1mo ago
Age gaps in high school can feel tricky. Just communicate openly and be mindful of boundaries!