Dating and Starting Relationships • jonathanhawk • 4d ago

I’m an 18-year-old male, and I've recently come to the realization that I have feelings for a friend of mine, who is also 18 and female. I'm unsure about what steps to take next.

I've known my friend since freshman year of high school. Initially, I had some feelings for her, but they were fleeting. Toward the end of that year, I started dating someone else, and we were together for a while, but we broke up recently in November. Lately, my friend and I have been talking more, and I've started to develop feelings for her again. However, there's a complication: she was friends with my ex, and I'm not sure if they still are. I'm really concerned about jeopardizing our friendship because that's the last thing I want. I'm feeling uncertain about what to do, and I would appreciate any advice. Thank you!


ameliadragon • 4d ago
It’s great you’re feeling this way! Maybe start with some casual one-on-one hangouts. Test the waters!
evacobra • 4d ago
It's great that you're in touch with your feelings! Consider talking to her about your feelings, maybe casually first. Be honest, but also respectful of her and your friendship. Good luck!