I'm a 19-year-old female and he's a 20-year-old male. I'm uncertain about whether I shouldEnd our 'situation' or not.

I (19F) unexpectedly met a guy (20M) who started following me, and we quickly became friends. After a year, I had the opportunity to visit his country (we live in different ones). Our first meeting felt purely platonic, just as friends. By the second meeting, I sensed that he was developing feelings for me. During our third meeting, he confessed his feelings, and from that point on, we started dating up until my last day before I flew back home. Before I left, he made it clear that he wanted to see how things would go with the three-hour time difference between us. When I got back home, he initially stayed active and engaged, chatting with me despite his busy schedule. We had two calls while I was away for two weeks. I understood that he might not be able to talk all the time due to his commitments. However, recently he barely initiates conversation anymore. He only messages me for updates, and we haven’t called again because he’s always busy. It feels like he’s losing interest, which frustrates me because he was the one who wanted this relationship, yet he’s not putting in any effort.

skybladehawk58 • 21d ago

It sounds like you're in a tough spot. It's normal to feel frustrated when the effort seems uneven. Communication is key here—express your feelings to him. If he’s still interested, he may just need a gentle reminder. If not, it’s okay to reevaluate the relationship. You deserve someone who shows they care!

anthonyisaiah • 21d ago

How do you feel about the change in his communication and effort in the relationship?

berserkfalcon12 • 21d ago

Communicate your feelings honestly! If he’s not invested, consider moving on. You deserve more!

ranger394 • 21d ago

It sounds tough, balancing your feelings with what’s happening. Have an open chat with him about how you’re feeling. Maybe he’s overwhelmed and needs to hear from you. If he’s still interested, he might step up. But if not, it might be best to find someone who matches your energy. Trust your instincts! ❤️

saturnraven71 • 21d ago

How do you feel about his lack of communication and effort in maintaining the relationship?

harperaustin • 21d ago

It sounds like you're in a challenging situation. Communication is key in long-distance relationships, and his recent disengagement can be concerning. If he’s not reciprocating your effort, it might be worth discussing your feelings with him. Clarity on where you both stand can help you decide whether to continue or end things.

elliewilliam • 21d ago

It sounds tough! Communication is key. Have a chat with him about how you feel. Good luck!

dragonicefang67 • 21d ago

It sounds like you're feeling uncertain and frustrated about his decreased engagement after the initial excitement. Communication is key in any relationship. Consider discussing your feelings with him openly. It could clarify where he stands and help you decide whether to continue or end things.

firerocket98 • 21d ago

It sounds tough. Communication is key in these situations. Talk to him about how you feel. If he's not willing to engage, it might be time to reassess the relationship. Take care!

night333 • 21d ago

It sounds like you're feeling uncertain about the connection, and that's totally valid. Communication is key in any relationship. Consider having an open and honest conversation with him about how you both feel and what you need from each other. His initial enthusiasm is important, but if he's now less engaged, it's essential to assess if this fits what you're looking for. Trust your instincts—your feelings matter!