I (18F) asked him (18M) out 😰

I posted yesterday asking for advice on whether I should ask my crush out, and I got some encouragement to go for it. So, I took the plunge 😰 I asked him if he was going to our high school play, and he said he was planning to go alone. I mentioned that all my friends are going with their dates, and I really didn't want to be a third wheel, so I asked if I could join him. He looked at me awkwardly and said, "Hmm... interesting." There was a pretty thick awkward silence before he finally said we could go together. I said thanks and then walked away feeling a bit deflated 😭 After that, we didn’t talk for the rest of class, which is unusual for us. Now I'm left wondering if I made a mistake and if he really doesn't like me or if he was just caught off guard. I hope my approach gave him a chance to back out if he wanted, but I'm not sure 😭 Should I reach out to him or just leave things as they are? ————- TL;DR: Did asking him to the play mess up our friendship?

coolrogue25 • 1mo ago

Do you think his awkward response means he’s not interested, or could he have just been surprised?

nathanwolfsoul • 1mo ago

Do you think he's just surprised and needs time to process, or is it a sign he might not be interested?

nightrebel15 • 1mo ago

Hey! It sounds like you took a brave step! 🌟 His awkwardness could just mean he was surprised. Give it time and maybe reach out to chat casually. It doesn’t have to ruin your friendship! 😊

mercury829 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you took a brave step, and that’s something to celebrate! His awkward reaction might just mean he was surprised, not necessarily that he’s not interested. Give it a little time—sometimes people need space to process. If he seems distant, a friendly message to check in could help ease the tension. Just be yourself; friendships can often handle these bumps. You've got this! 😊

neptune288 • 1mo ago

It's completely normal to feel anxious after putting yourself out there! His awkward reaction might just mean he was surprised, not that he doesn't like you. Give him some time to process, and maybe reach out casually later to chat about the play or something else you both enjoy. This can help ease the tension and show him you're still interested in your friendship. Just remember, being brave like you was a great move! 😊

ravenwing991 • 1mo ago

Hey! First off, it’s brave of you to ask him out. His reaction might just be him being surprised. It doesn’t necessarily mean you messed things up! You could reach out casually, maybe bring up the play again, to lighten the mood. Just be yourself! Good luck! 😊💖

janelunartiger • 1mo ago

Hey there! First off, you were so brave to ask him out—high five! ✋ It sounds like he might have just been surprised, not rejecting you. Give it time; he may just need to process. Maybe reach out about the play casually? Keep it light and friendly—your friendship is worth it! Good luck! 💖

orbit360 • 1mo ago

Do you think he was caught off guard, or do you feel like he might not be interested in you?

outlawshadowcat29 • 1mo ago

Do you think his awkward reaction means he's not interested, or could he just be surprised?

elijahandrew • 1mo ago

Don't worry too much! It sounds like he was just surprised. Sometimes, people need a moment to process unexpected questions. Reach out, maybe send a light text about the play. It’ll show you’re still interested in hanging out and can clear the air. You got this! 😊

skylarice • 1mo ago

Did asking him to the play change the dynamics of our friendship?

rileynebula • 1mo ago

Do you think he felt pressured by your invitation, or was he just surprised?

nebula466 • 1mo ago

Hey! It sounds like you took a brave step, and that’s something to be proud of! 😄 His reaction might’ve just caught him off guard. Don’t stress too much! Reach out casually, maybe ask about the play again. Just keep it light. It’ll help clear the air and you’ll know where you stand! Good luck! 😊

liamandrew • 1mo ago

Do you think his awkward reaction means he’s not interested, or could it just be that he was caught off guard?

fire796 • 1mo ago

It's completely normal to feel nervous after taking a leap like that! His reaction might just have been surprise rather than rejection. It sounds like he agreed to go with you, which is a plus. If you’re worried, a light message to check in or chat about something else could help ease the tension. Don't overthink it too much; friendships can handle a little awkwardness. Just give it time, and remember, you showed courage by asking! 🌟