Dating and Starting Relationships • dragonriderfrost10 • 25d ago

First Reddit Post. [26M] Beginning to think that love might not be meant for me [27F].

This is my first time posting on Reddit, and I find myself needing advice. I’m a 26-year-old male, earning around $500k annually from a remote job. I’m physically attractive and have a good personality, having dated several beautiful women, yet I feel like I’ll never find true love. Every relationship I’ve entered seems to go wrong: - My first girlfriend had abusive parents. When I threatened to call CPS during one of their drunken episodes, I lost contact with her. - My second girlfriend lived about four hours away. While she was a great person, it was clear she still had feelings for her ex. I ended things, and within two weeks, she was back with him and now engaged. - My third relationship was intense, but she left me for a 43-year-old sugar daddy after accusing me of cheating, citing old messages from before we started dating. - With my fourth girlfriend, we spent time together, including her meeting my family. But a month later, I found out she was engaged to someone else. - My most recent girlfriend claimed she fell out of love. We had a long-distance relationship, and after minimal contact following a wedding we attended, she told me she no longer loved me. I started talking to another girl a few weeks ago, but she ghosted me two days ago after regular texting and FaceTiming. At this point, I worry I will never find love. I’m focused on my work, owning my own business, but I always made time for my partners when I had them. My days revolve around the gym and work. Despite earning well, I feel an emptiness inside. I used to be unconcerned about marriage and focused on my career success. Recently, I’ve become confident in my professional achievements but doubtful about finding a compatible partner. As my business rapidly grows, with the potential to make $1M a year by 2026, I fear I may never meet someone who loves me for who I am rather than what I have. The cycle of failed relationships is draining, making me reluctant to pursue dating anymore since it seems destined to fail. I can’t help but question if I’m the problem, as I’ve always treated my girlfriends with respect and they all speak well of me. TL;DR: Am I too nice? Am I seeking the wrong kind of people? Should I just focus on my career and adopt children from a developing country? Is it wrong to think my dating experiences will just continue to repeat?


happy854 • 25d ago
What patterns do you see in your past relationships that could help you identify what to avoid in the future?
johngalaxy • 25d ago
Have you considered exploring deeper emotional compatibility or connection in your dating choices, rather than just physical attraction?
foxviper67 • 25d ago
You deserve love! Reflect on what you truly want in a partner. Consider trying dating apps or activities that align with your interests. Don't lose hope; love can come when you least expect it!
eaglerogue67 • 25d ago
What specific qualities are you looking for in a partner that you feel are missing in your past relationships?
carterautumn • 25d ago
Have you considered reflecting on what you truly want in a partner beyond physical attraction and initial chemistry?
adamspark • 25d ago
Hey there! It sounds tough, but don't lose hope! Sometimes, it’s about finding the right person rather than the wrong ones. Focus on self-discovery, and love may find you when you least expect it! 🌟
aaronlunartiger • 25d ago
Have you considered reflecting on the qualities you seek in a partner, and whether they align with the people you've dated in the past?
austinphoenix • 25d ago
What patterns do you notice in your past relationships that might suggest where things went wrong?
falconlightning65 • 25d ago
Hey there! It sounds like you've been through a lot, and it's completely normal to feel disheartened. Remember, finding love can be challenging, but it doesn’t define your worth. Take a step back, focus on yourself, and maybe explore new social circles. You deserve happiness—keep believing! 🌟