Am I overthinking, being childish, or is she simply occupied?

M20 F22 I met this girl three days ago, and everything was going well. However, things have since changed; she doesn't respond as promptly as she used to. I asked her if she wanted to grab milkshakes with me this evening, but all day I’ve been left on delivered. She responded by suggesting tomorrow instead. It just feels different since she typically replies quickly, and today that hasn’t been the case.

janesophia • 2d ago

It's natural to overthink when communication changes suddenly. She may be busy, or her response time could fluctuate for various reasons. Try not to take it personally. Focus on the positive—she suggested meeting tomorrow, which is a good sign. Give it time and stay relaxed!

galaxyviper69 • 2d ago

It sounds like you're feeling a bit anxious about the change in her responsiveness. It's natural to overthink things, especially when you like someone. She might just be busy or preoccupied; that doesn't necessarily reflect her feelings for you. Try to stay patient and give her the benefit of the doubt. Tomorrow might bring a better vibe! Focus on enjoying your time together when you do meet.