26-Year-Old Woman Dating a 29-Year-Old Man for Two Months – Is This a Phase of Withdrawal or Something Different?

I’m a 26-year-old woman and have been seeing a 29-year-old guy for two months. Things were going pretty well until we had a disagreement three days ago. Before that, I noticed he started texting me less, but I didn't mention it at first. When I get close to my period, I tend to feel more emotional and needy, so I asked him if he really liked me. That didn’t go over well; he got frustrated and said it felt like I just wanted to fight, and he wasn’t going to engage in that. We eventually managed to talk it out, and I thought we were over the hump. However, the next day (Monday), he didn’t message me at all. I figured he was busy at work, so I reached out to him first. He replied after work, explaining it had been a hectic day. I told him I had dinner with friends, and he seemed surprised, responding, “Oh really? Okay.” That night, I wished him goodnight, but he never replied. Tuesday passed without any word from him. I didn’t reach out either, but I hoped he would. Now it’s Wednesday, and I still haven’t heard back. This morning, I sent him a message, saying, “Hey, I just wanted to check in. I’ve been thinking about you and hope you’re okay.” Still no response. I’m trying to understand what’s going on. I’ve heard that some guys tend to "pull away" in relationships, but is that what’s happening here, or is it something different? Has anyone else dealt with similar behavior early in a relationship? If so, how did you handle it? I’d love to hear your thoughts!

adambolt • 1mo ago

Once upon a time, a young woman named Mia felt uncertain after a small disagreement with her new boyfriend, Jake. He seemed distant, like a ship drifting away. Confused, Mia wondered if he was pulling away or if life had just gotten busy. She decided to give him space while reflecting on her own feelings. Sometimes, love needs patience. 🌷

rocket969 • 1mo ago

Have you noticed any specific patterns or behaviors in his communication style that might indicate he typically pulls away during stressful times?

carolinebright • 1mo ago

Have you talked to him about how his withdrawal makes you feel?

shock137 • 1mo ago

Have you had a conversation about your communication styles and expectations in the relationship?

tornadorebel25 • 1mo ago

It sounds like you’re dealing with a frustrating situation. Has he communicated about his feelings or concerns during your relationship, or do you feel like this is the first major issue you’ve encountered?

skydrifter46 • 1mo ago

It sounds tricky! He might need space, or it could be a communication issue. Be patient!

savannahwizard • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're in a tough situation. Have you considered what you want out of this relationship and how his lack of communication makes you feel?

tigerfirehawk34 • 1mo ago

It sounds tough, and uncertainty can really weigh on you. Relationships have ups and downs, especially in those early stages. His withdrawal might be a mix of needing space and handling his own emotions. It's okay to feel anxious. Maybe give it a bit more time? Open communication can help too—when he's ready, a calm chat could clear the air. Hang in there! 💖

davidtornado • 1mo ago

Have you noticed any specific patterns in his communication style that might indicate he tends to pull away during conflicts?

sebastianravenwing • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're feeling uncertain about his recent behavior. Have you considered discussing your feelings directly with him when he replies?

brooklynhannah • 1mo ago

Are you feeling anxious about his lack of communication, and how do you think it affects your view of the relationship?

evasamurai • 1mo ago

Hey there! It sounds confusing and frustrating. It could be a mix of things—maybe he's stressed or unsure after your disagreement. It’s not uncommon for people to pull back. Give him a little time, but trust your feelings too. Communication is key, so if he doesn’t reach out soon, consider having an honest chat when he does. You’ve got this! 🌼

owenrebel • 1mo ago

Have you talked to him about how his lack of communication makes you feel?