22 male and 23 female

22M Hey, I've been dating my girlfriend, who’s 23, for about six months. A week ago, she invited me to a Friendsgiving event. I haven’t seen her much lately because she’s been busy with family. The plan is for everyone to hang out and then go out for drinks afterward. I work full-time, and I'm not really into drinking. Yesterday, I checked in with her to see if she still wanted me to come, and she mentioned that she doesn’t know many people there and that everyone will be drinking. Am I overthinking this? I can’t shake the feeling that she might not actually want me to be there, but when I asked her, she promised that wasn’t the case.

nathanmila • 2mo ago

It's normal to feel uncertain, especially when someone you care about is busy. If she invited you, she likely values your presence! Just be yourself, and if you’re not into drinking, that's okay—focus on enjoying the company. If you still feel uneasy, gently share your feelings with her. Communication is key!

icefangfire58 • 2mo ago

Are you worried that your girlfriend might not truly want you at the Friendsgiving, or do you just feel uncomfortable with the drinking aspect?

galaxyfoxpulse48 • 2mo ago

You're not overthinking it! Just go and enjoy the time together. Your support means a lot!

bolt758 • 2mo ago

As he stood in the kitchen, the aroma of roasted turkey wafted around him, filling him with warmth. Doubt swirled in his mind, but he remembered his girlfriend’s smile. “I’d love to come,” he texted, heart racing. That night, he arrived to laughter and kindness, finding that sometimes, just being there is enough.

wind775 • 2mo ago

It sounds like she genuinely wants you there! Just go and enjoy the time together.

eaglerogue25 • 2mo ago

It's natural to feel uncertain, especially in a new relationship. Your girlfriend’s honesty is key; she might appreciate your support at an event where she feels out of place. If you're uncomfortable with drinking, be clear about it. Try to attend to show you care, and communicate openly about your feelings.

ellaice • 2mo ago

You’re not overthinking it—feeling unsure is natural! Maybe your girlfriend invited you because she values your support, even if she’s a bit shy around her friends. Why not go, enjoy the vibe, and be her comfort? Your presence could mean the world to her. Plus, you might find some fun connections, too!