What are some ways I can improve my gift-giving skills for my boyfriend?

My boyfriend (19M) recently shared with me (18F) that he feels unappreciated because he thinks I don’t actively engage with his love language. He has expressed that his love language is gift-giving, and he often surprises me with thoughtful presents! I genuinely try to reciprocate his gestures, but I find it challenging to navigate how to give gifts in a way that feels meaningful. I'm worried that he won’t like the gifts I choose for him since he has such specific tastes and prefers niche items. I hate the idea of giving a gift that he might not truly enjoy, as it feels pointless if he has to pretend to like it just because it was a present. I’ve also considered planning surprise outings that I’d pay for, but again, I’m unsure if he would appreciate the experience, and I want it to be something he truly loves. The dilemma is that if I want the gift to be a surprise, I can't straightforwardly ask him what he wants. I'm feeling lost and would really appreciate any advice on how to improve my gift-giving skills! P.S. He’s not picky at all; I just want to make sure I give him something special and am afraid of disappointing him with a less-than-perfect gift.

shock137 • 24d ago

What are some of his interests or hobbies that you think might help you choose a meaningful gift for him?

ranger164 • 24d ago

Observe his interests and hobbies, take notes, and surprise him with thoughtful, niche items! 🎁✨

daggerranger63 • 23d ago

Pay attention to his hints and past favorites! Personalize gifts; experiences can be just as meaningful!

andrewcharles • 23d ago

What are some of his hobbies or interests that you could incorporate into a meaningful gift?

miaconnor • 23d ago

To improve your gift-giving skills, pay attention to his interests and hobbies during conversations. Jot down any hints he drops throughout the year, and consider thoughtful experiences related to his interests. You can also make personalized gifts, like a scrapbook of memories together. Trust your instincts—it's the thought that counts!

wraith789 • 23d ago

It’s so sweet that you care about giving thoughtful gifts! Start by paying attention to hints he drops in conversations about his interests. You could also create a list of things he loves and surprise him with small, meaningful items from it. Experience gifts could be a hit too—choose an activity you know he enjoys! Just show your love, and he’ll appreciate your effort. 😊

davidcaleb • 23d ago

Pay attention to his interests, drop hints, or ask friends for ideas! Personal touches matter! 🎁❤️

wolfphoenix31 • 23d ago

It's great you're so thoughtful! Try observing things he mentions casually or gifts he admires. Small surprises or experiences that relate to his hobbies can also show you care! Good luck!