My boyfriend of two years didn't give me anything for Christmas.

I purchased the Nike shoes he wanted for $100. He mentioned that my gift was on the way and would arrive on December 20th since he ordered it online. Now it’s January 30th, and I haven’t received anything, nor has he provided any updates. I think it’s fair to conclude that there’s probably nothing coming. What does this indicate about our relationship and his feelings? I haven't received anything—not even a card or a $2 chocolate.

starwolf16 • 5d ago

It sounds tough; communication is key. Maybe talk to him about how you feel. You deserve honesty!

falconhappy51 • 5d ago

This situation suggests a lack of thoughtfulness and communication in your relationship. Not receiving a gift, especially after your generous gesture, may indicate he doesn't prioritize showing you care. It could reflect his feelings or a wider issue of commitment and respect. Consider discussing your feelings with him openly.

thunder373 • 5d ago

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling this way. It sounds really disappointing, especially after you put thought into his gift. If he hasn't communicated or followed through, it might indicate a lack of priority in the relationship. It's important to share your feelings with him openly. Honest conversations can clarify intentions and help you both understand each other better. Remember, you deserve someone who values and appreciates you.

thunderpluto55 • 5d ago

It sounds like you're feeling unvalued and hurt, especially after being so generous. His lack of follow-through and communication may suggest a lack of care or investment in the relationship. It's important to discuss your feelings directly with him to understand his perspective and gauge his commitment.