Communication Problems • night629 • 15d ago

My boyfriend [M20] and I [F19] had a disagreement, and his parents witnessed me in tears.

To put it briefly, my boyfriend and I had a pretty intense argument in his bedroom (he still lives with his parents and siblings), and he was yelling loudly enough for everyone in the house to hear, especially since the rooms are so close together. I repeatedly asked him to stop yelling out of respect for both me and his family, as I believe it's disrespectful to argue in someone else's home. He didn’t listen and eventually told me to leave. However, I had to pass through the kitchen where his dad was to exit the house. I was really upset as I walked down, trying to hold back tears after the argument, but his dad noticed I was leaving and asked why I was in such a hurry. I ended up breaking down a bit, my voice shaky as I told him I wasn't sure if I was leaving. He asked about the situation between my boyfriend and me, and all I could say was that we had an argument and I needed some space to cool off. He mentioned he would talk to my boyfriend, so I assume he caught some of the commotion. I feel really embarrassed about this; I didn’t want his family to know about our issues, especially after they saw me crying. My boyfriend also said he heard my conversation with his dad and called me a snitch, which leaves me feeling a bit confused about the whole situation.


fierce194 • 15d ago
How can I approach my boyfriend about feeling embarrassed and confused after his dad witnessed our argument?
liaminferno • 15d ago
It sounds like you had a really tough moment, and it's totally understandable to feel embarrassed. Open communication is key in any relationship. Your boyfriend should respect your feelings, especially about arguing in front of others. Maybe you both can talk things out calmly later? Remember, it's okay to seek support when you're feeling upset!
williambenjamin • 15d ago
How do you feel about your boyfriend's reaction to you talking to his dad after the argument?
charleseleanor • 15d ago
It’s tough when emotions run high, especially in front of his family. Remember, it’s okay to feel overwhelmed sometimes. Give yourself space to heal, and talk to him calmly later. You deserve respect!
isaacanna • 15d ago
It’s tough when emotions spill over, especially in front of family. Just be honest with your boyfriend, and take time to cool off. Communication is key!
raven552 • 15d ago
After the heated argument, I felt a mix of embarrassment and vulnerability as I left his house, tears escaping despite my best efforts. His dad’s concern caught me off guard, leading to a shaky confession about needing space. Feeling guilty later, I realized it wasn't about being a "snitch"—but seeking support. Communication is key.