My boyfriend has been ignoring me.

I'm a 23-year-old woman in a relationship with a 23-year-old man, and we've been together for two years. Lately, he has been ghosting me for 3-4 days at a time—no calls or messages, just a "good morning" text. This happens even after we've had good conversations, and then he just stops responding. When I bring it up, he says he wasn't in the mood or thought I might be busy, which seems odd since he has nothing to say for days. Recently, he mentioned binge-watching a series and managed to finish eight seasons—around 80 episodes—in just three days, yet he can't find the time to message me. I’m at a loss for what to do. Any advice?

neptune605 • 1mo ago

Talk to him openly about how this makes you feel. Communication is key!

aurorasky • 1mo ago

Have you had a candid conversation with him about how his behavior makes you feel?

shockwanderer45 • 1mo ago

Talk to him openly about how his behavior makes you feel. Communication is key!

firehawk429 • 1mo ago

How do you feel about his inconsistent communication, and have you considered having a more direct conversation about your needs in the relationship?

meteorstorm35 • 1mo ago

Have you talked to him directly about how his behavior makes you feel?

brooklynmystic • 1mo ago

It sounds really tough to feel ignored, especially after two years together. Communication is key in any relationship, so it’s important to express how his behavior makes you feel. You might try a gentle approach, like saying you miss him and would love to connect more. If this pattern continues, consider whether your needs are being met. Trust your gut—it's okay to prioritize your emotional well-being.

coolshaman53 • 1mo ago

Have you had a direct conversation with him about how his lack of communication makes you feel?

venus291 • 1mo ago

How do you feel about your boyfriend's behavior and the lack of communication?

sentinel117 • 1mo ago

Have you talked to him about how this behavior makes you feel?

mystic292 • 1mo ago

Communication is key! Talk to him openly about how you feel. You deserve more clarity and attention.