My boyfriend (18M) has been acting distant lately, and I'm unsure how to handle it.

We've been together for almost six months now, but lately, he's been acting distant and unresponsive. It feels like he suddenly stopped expressing his affection—no more "I love you" or "I miss you," and his compliments have faded away. When I ask if he’s okay or if he still loves me, he reassures me that he does, but at times it seems like his feelings have changed. He doesn't initiate kisses like he used to, and instead, he just lies in my bed and falls asleep. When I check in on him, he simply says he’s tired. I'm a bit of an overthinker and I tend to need a lot of reassurance. Since I’ve been hearing "I love you" less often, it's really been weighing on me. I want to support him and I’m not ready to walk away, but I’m not sure how to address these feelings.

violetshock • 1mo ago

It sounds tough navigating this drift, like swimming against the current. One evening, you could share your feelings over a cozy dinner. Maybe say, “I’ve missed our closeness. Can we talk?” Invite him to open up about what’s on his mind. Your warmth and honesty might light the spark back again. Just remember, communication is key!

masonviolet • 1mo ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about how his behavior is affecting you and your feelings?

happyhappy78 • 1mo ago

It sounds tough to feel that shift in your boyfriend. Communication is key! Try gently sharing how you’ve been feeling—without blaming him. Ask open-ended questions to understand his perspective. Sometimes stress or life changes can affect closeness. It’s great you want to support him. Hang in there!