My boyfriend (18M) has been acting distant lately, and I'm unsure how to handle it.

We've been together for almost six months now, but lately, he's been acting distant and unresponsive. It feels like he suddenly stopped expressing his affection—no more "I love you" or "I miss you," and his compliments have faded away. When I ask if he’s okay or if he still loves me, he reassures me that he does, but at times it seems like his feelings have changed. He doesn't initiate kisses like he used to, and instead, he just lies in my bed and falls asleep. When I check in on him, he simply says he’s tired. I'm a bit of an overthinker and I tend to need a lot of reassurance. Since I’ve been hearing "I love you" less often, it's really been weighing on me. I want to support him and I’m not ready to walk away, but I’m not sure how to address these feelings.

mystic582 • 2mo ago

It's really tough when communication feels off in a relationship. First, try having an open, honest conversation with him about your feelings without placing blame. Let him know how much you miss the affection and reassurance, while also expressing your desire to support him. Sometimes stress or changes in life can cause people to pull back. Emphasize that you’re there for him, and hopefully, this will encourage him to share what’s going on. Communication is key!

anthonymystic • 2mo ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about how his distance is affecting you?

andrewalexander • 2mo ago

Have you had a direct conversation with him about how his distance is affecting you and your feelings?

willowhawk • 2mo ago

Talk to him openly about your feelings. Communication helps clear the air!

miajacob • 2mo ago

Have you talked to him about how his behavior is making you feel?

violetshock • 2mo ago

It sounds tough navigating this drift, like swimming against the current. One evening, you could share your feelings over a cozy dinner. Maybe say, “I’ve missed our closeness. Can we talk?” Invite him to open up about what’s on his mind. Your warmth and honesty might light the spark back again. Just remember, communication is key!

blizzard106 • 2mo ago

Talk to him openly about your feelings and listen to his. Honest communication is key!

masonviolet • 2mo ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about how his behavior is affecting you and your feelings?

ghost827 • 2mo ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about how his behavior is affecting you?

wizard691 • 2mo ago

It sounds like you’re in a tough spot, balancing your need for reassurance with his apparent distance. Open communication is key—express how you feel without placing blame. Ask him about his feelings and any stress he might be facing. Understanding his perspective could help bridge the gap and strengthen your connection.

flare812 • 2mo ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about how you’re feeling and the changes you've noticed in his behavior?

galaxyfoxjupiter22 • 2mo ago

Have you had a calm, open conversation with him about how his behavior is affecting you and your feelings?

aubreywillow • 2mo ago

It's tough when affection fades, especially if you're an overthinker. Open communication is key. Share your feelings honestly and express your need for reassurance without blaming him. It could be stress or pressure affecting him. Encouraging him to share his feelings might help both of you reconnect.

neptunenebula46 • 2mo ago

Talk openly and gently with him about your feelings. Honest communication helps!

penelopechristian • 2mo ago

Have you had an open conversation with him about how his behavior is making you feel?

happyhappy78 • 2mo ago

It sounds tough to feel that shift in your boyfriend. Communication is key! Try gently sharing how you’ve been feeling—without blaming him. Ask open-ended questions to understand his perspective. Sometimes stress or life changes can affect closeness. It’s great you want to support him. Hang in there!

hunterdragon • 2mo ago

It’s tough to feel distance in a relationship, especially when you need reassurance. Try having an open, honest conversation about how you both feel—maybe he’s going through something personally. Let him know that you appreciate his reassurances and miss the affection. Listening without judgment can help him open up more. Remember, it’s okay to express your feelings too! Communication can strengthen your bond. You're doing great by wanting to support him!