Is he intentionally trying to hurt my feelings?

I’m starting to feel like my boyfriend is purposely trying to hurt my feelings. It seems like he forgets things we’ve talked about and continues to repeat the same behaviors after we've discussed them. For example, I express that it bothers me when he does something, and then a few months later, he does it again. He hardly remembers our conversations, and it feels like he has the same discussions with me that he has with his coworkers. While he’s not interested in living together, he also doesn’t want to break up. Does anyone have any insights on this?

brooklynaurora • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're feeling really hurt and frustrated. It's important to communicate your feelings directly with him. He may not be aware of how his actions impact you or might struggle to retain the conversations you’ve had. Consider setting aside time for an open, honest discussion about your concerns without blame. Also, think about whether this relationship aligns with what you want for your future. Your feelings matter!

liamchaser • 1mo ago

Have you talked to him about how his actions are affecting your feelings?