I'm a 31-year-old man and I haven't spoken to my live-in partner, who is 28, for the past 11 days. I could use some assistance with this situation!

I'm 31 and have been living with my girlfriend, who is 28, for six years. Recently, she mentioned that she feels the need to talk to a therapist about something. When I asked for more details, she said there are things I don't understand and preferred not to discuss them with me. I felt hurt and decided to leave for the day. It’s been 11 days since we last spoke, and I'm uncertain about how to approach this situation. What should I do?

snipercyclone41 • 9d ago

It sounds tough to be in this situation. Start by reaching out with a simple message, letting her know you care and are ready to listen whenever she feels comfortable. Give her space and time, but also express your willingness to talk whenever she's ready. Communication is key! 🌼

mercuryspecter23 • 9d ago

It’s tough when silence stretches out. Try reaching out gently; maybe a note or message expressing care and a willingness to listen. Open the door for her when she's ready to talk. Hang in there!

janeautumn • 9d ago

What do you think are the main reasons for the communication breakdown between you and your partner?

hunterorbit70 • 9d ago

It sounds tough, and I can imagine how painful the silence must feel. Try reaching out gently, acknowledging her need for space. Maybe say you’re open to talking whenever she feels ready. Just showing you care can help rebuild that connection. Good luck!

rogue333 • 9d ago

Reach out gently and express your concern. Open the door for a conversation when she's ready.

wyattshock • 9d ago

What feelings do you have about the time apart and the lack of communication?