Communication Problems • orbit425 • 5d ago

How can I express my regret without actually saying the words "I'm sorry"?

My boyfriend (19M) and I (18M) have a really close and fantastic relationship, and we just celebrated our four-month anniversary. However, there are times when he gets annoyed, irritated, or quiet if something goes wrong at work, home, or elsewhere. When I do something that bothers him, I often try to apologize, but he responds with comments like, "You should know by now I dislike apologies." This leaves me at a loss for words—I just don’t know how to respond beyond saying I'm sorry. It's a tough situation for me, and it tends to make me shut down. I've asked him what he'd prefer I say instead, but he also doesn’t seem to have an answer. Any advice would be appreciated!


ariasniper • 5d ago
Show understanding with a thoughtful gesture. Acknowledge feelings, then ask how to make it better!
lucymia • 5d ago
Instead of saying "I'm sorry," try showing understanding. You might say, "I can see this is bothering you. I’m here if you want to talk." A simple gesture, like making his favorite snack or leaving a cute note, can also express that you care. Sometimes, actions speak louder than words!
astroberserk45 • 5d ago
What are some alternative ways to express understanding and support without using the words "I'm sorry"?
orbitrebel66 • 5d ago
You could express understanding and care instead. Try saying, "I see you're upset; I'm here for you."