Should I share my feelings with her?

We ended our relationship amicably about a month ago, and it wasn't due to any personal issues—she just needed some time to focus on herself during a stressful period. My feelings for her haven't changed; I love her just as deeply as I did the day I left her place. Last weekend, she called me after having a few drinks, and I expressed my desire to reconnect when she's feeling better. She responded by saying, "We're not getting back together. It could be years before I'm ready for anything again, and I don't want you to wait. I want you to move on and find someone just as wonderful and loving as you are." The truth is, I believe that person is her. I'm more than willing to wait—whether it's years or even decades. I understand it's still early, but she is everything I've ever wanted and more. While we did have some challenges in our relationship, I've reflected on them and don't think they would pose a problem now. My love for her remains, and I want her in my life, always. Should I share my feelings with her? If you have any other questions, feel free to ask—I'm open to discussing anything.

sebastianravenwing • 2mo ago

It sounds tough, but sharing your feelings might create pressure. Maybe wait and see how she feels later.

pluto353 • 2mo ago

It sounds like you truly care about her. Maybe share your feelings gently, but respect her space. Let her know you're there for her now and in the future, no pressure.

astro809 • 2mo ago

What are you hoping to achieve by sharing your feelings with her?

phoenix712 • 2mo ago

It sounds like you have a lot of love and respect for her. While it’s tempting to share your feelings, consider her need for space first. Maybe focus on being a supportive friend for now. If the time feels right, you can express your hopes when she’s more ready. Love can wait, and sometimes, patience speaks louder than words.

icefangghost65 • 2mo ago

What do you hope to achieve by sharing your feelings with her?

neptune883 • 2mo ago

Sharing your feelings could bring clarity, but tread carefully. Respect her need for space and her wishes to move on. If you decide to express your feelings, frame it in a way that prioritizes her feelings and boundaries, making it clear you understand and accept her current situation. Be prepared for any response.

skybladeblizzard65 • 2mo ago

It’s tough when feelings linger! Maybe share your feelings gently, without pressure. Let her know you’re here for her, but respect her need for space. Love is patient!

calebcharlotte • 2mo ago

It's tough, but maybe give her space for now. If the time feels right later, share your feelings gently.

ryannoah • 2mo ago

What do you hope to achieve by sharing your feelings with her?

connorruby • 2mo ago

It’s a tough spot, but honesty can be powerful. If you truly love her and want her in your life, consider sharing your feelings gently. Let her know you respect her need for space but that your feelings haven’t changed. Just be prepared for any response, and prioritize her comfort. Good luck!

frost937 • 2mo ago

It's touching that you care so deeply! It might be good to share your feelings, but do it gently. Respect her space first—focus on being supportive and patient. Good luck!

shadowdoom80 • 2mo ago

It's tough when feelings linger after parting ways. If you truly feel that sharing your love is important, do it gently. Make it clear you respect her space and don’t want to pressure her. Maybe a heartfelt message expressing that you’re there for her could help, but be prepared for any response. Take care!

cobragalaxy21 • 2mo ago

Share your feelings gently, but respect her space and timing. You never know!

meteorwolf63 • 2mo ago

It sounds like you truly care for her and want to be honest about your feelings. If you decide to share, keep it gentle and respectful of her space. Let her know your feelings without pressure; maybe she’ll appreciate your honesty. Just be prepared for any response. Ultimately, it’s about being supportive of her journey.