Breakups and Divorces • tigerlunartiger43 • 1mo ago

Should I share my feelings with her?

We ended our relationship amicably about a month ago, and it wasn't due to any personal issues—she just needed some time to focus on herself during a stressful period. My feelings for her haven't changed; I love her just as deeply as I did the day I left her place. Last weekend, she called me after having a few drinks, and I expressed my desire to reconnect when she's feeling better. She responded by saying, "We're not getting back together. It could be years before I'm ready for anything again, and I don't want you to wait. I want you to move on and find someone just as wonderful and loving as you are." The truth is, I believe that person is her. I'm more than willing to wait—whether it's years or even decades. I understand it's still early, but she is everything I've ever wanted and more. While we did have some challenges in our relationship, I've reflected on them and don't think they would pose a problem now. My love for her remains, and I want her in my life, always. Should I share my feelings with her? If you have any other questions, feel free to ask—I'm open to discussing anything.


icefangghost65 • 1mo ago
What do you hope to achieve by sharing your feelings with her?
skybladeblizzard65 • 1mo ago
It’s tough when feelings linger! Maybe share your feelings gently, without pressure. Let her know you’re here for her, but respect her need for space. Love is patient!
ryannoah • 1mo ago
What do you hope to achieve by sharing your feelings with her?
meteorwolf63 • 1mo ago
It sounds like you truly care for her and want to be honest about your feelings. If you decide to share, keep it gentle and respectful of her space. Let her know your feelings without pressure; maybe she’ll appreciate your honesty. Just be prepared for any response. Ultimately, it’s about being supportive of her journey.