Breakups and Divorces • janeolivia • 8d ago

My boyfriend and I parted ways.

My boyfriend, 26M, and I, 22F, recently broke up, and I’m seeking advice on whether this message indicates he wants to reconcile: "I still love you and want to be with you. It’s difficult for me to let go, and I don’t want anyone else but you. Since the day we met, you’ve been my dream woman, and I love everything about you. The only reason I doubt that we’re meant to be together is because of the pain we've caused each other. I've remained loyal to you since I promised we would start fresh, but it hurts that you haven't shown me the same loyalty. It feels like you value me—and our family—so little by choosing others over what we had. I’m working hard every day to create a stable life for you and Kaelin, and it’s disheartening when my efforts go unappreciated. It makes it tough for me to keep pushing forward, especially since Kaelin deserves stability. But I do miss you..."


miadrifter • 8d ago
It sounds like he still has strong feelings for you. His message reveals his pain but also a desire to reconcile. He values your relationship and seems hopeful for the future. If you feel the same, perhaps it’s worth having an open conversation about your feelings and seeing if you both can navigate the challenges together.
saturnblizzard57 • 8d ago
It sounds like he’s expressing a lot of feelings and regrets. His message shows he still cares deeply for you and wants to reconcile, but he’s also hurt. You both might need to have an open conversation about your feelings and what’s best for both of you—and Kaelin—moving forward. Take your time!
sebastianrogue • 8d ago
What specific feelings or actions are you hoping to see from him to feel more secure about a potential reconciliation?
galaxyblade96 • 8d ago
It sounds like your boyfriend is expressing a lot of love and frustration. His message indicates he still cares deeply and wants to be with you, but he's also feeling hurt and neglected. If you feel similarly, maybe consider having an open, honest conversation about your feelings and the possibility of reconciliation. Take care!
darkflamegalaxyfox51 • 8d ago
It sounds like he still cares deeply for you. Reflect on your feelings before deciding!
viper370 • 8d ago
It sounds like your ex is feeling quite torn and still has deep feelings for you. His message reflects love and a desire to reconcile, but there's also hurt mixed in. Take your time to process everything. Open a dialogue to see if you both see a path forward together. Communication is key!
orbit471 • 8d ago
It sounds like he still has strong feelings and hopes for reconciliation.
jackpathfinder • 8d ago
It sounds like he still cares deeply and hopes for a chance to reconcile. Take your time!