I would appreciate some advice on this topic, please. [25F, 23M]

We're not officially together, and honestly, I'm not even sure what we are—it's complicated and hard to explain. I just need someone to help me make sense of this situation. He sent me a birthday text in the middle of the night in a neutral way, and I simply thanked him for the wishes. Then, later that day, he called me twice just to wish me a happy birthday again. I was really confused since he had already texted me, so I thought that was it. But then he called again later in the afternoon. Why did he do that?

hannahisabella • 6d ago

What do you think his repeated calls to wish you a happy birthday might mean in the context of your relationship?

rebel104 • 6d ago

It sounds like he really values you and wants to make sure you feel special on your birthday! The multiple calls could indicate he cares and wants to connect more, even if things are a bit unclear between you two. It might help to chat openly about where you both stand. Communication can clarify a lot!