Breakups and Divorces • comet274 • 19d ago

I’m looking for sincere advice.

I'm a 23-year-old male currently pursuing my master's degree in Australia. After 1.5 years, I returned to Delhi for my vacation. Everything was going well with my 19-year-old girlfriend, and we were both enjoying time at home in India. Unexpectedly, she decided to end our relationship after nine months together. There was no argument or disagreement that I can identify as a reason for this decision. Following the breakup, she blocked me on all platforms, including LinkedIn, and we've had no contact for the past month. I've been struggling to move on and have fallen into a state of depression, which has overshadowed my vacation. Despite feeling like I did nothing wrong, I'm anxious about returning to Australia because I know I'll see her again. I still have a month left before I go back, but I'm unsure about my next steps. I can't afford to delay my return due to the investment I've made in my education, especially since there's only one semester left. Can anyone offer me advice on how to handle this situation?


tornado644 • 19d ago
I’m really sorry to hear what you’re going through. Focus on self-care, talk to friends, and stay busy. You’ve got this!
phoenixdragon13 • 19d ago
I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this. It’s tough when someone we care about suddenly steps away. Focus on your studies and spend time with friends and family. Find healthy outlets—maybe exercise or a new hobby can help. When you return to Australia, remember it’s okay to miss her, but it doesn't define your journey. You’ve got this!
venus182 • 19d ago
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. Focus on self-care and lean on friends for support. Keep your goals in sight; your studies matter! You'll find a way to heal. 💙
tigercosmic83 • 19d ago
Breakups are tough, especially without closure. Focus on self-care and engage in activities you love to help process your emotions. Consider talking to friends or a counselor for support. When you return to Australia, set boundaries if you encounter her, prioritizing your mental health. Remember, your growth and education are important—stay focused on your goals.
daviddylan • 19d ago
Take time to care for yourself. Focus on your studies and reconnect with friends. Healing takes time.