I'm a 25-year-old woman who recently ended my relationship with my 28-year-old boyfriend, and now he’s asking for another opportunity. How should I handle this?

My boyfriend (28M) and I (25F) have been together for over a year. While our relationship was never perfect, it had its decent moments. Initially, I was impressed by how open and communicative he was, and I felt genuinely lucky to have him. However, the past few months have been challenging, and I’ve begun to feel like we’re not the same people anymore. To provide some background: I unexpectedly found out I was pregnant in July, though it wasn't confirmed until October. During that period, I realized I wanted to break up due to my unhappiness in the relationship. He convinced me to work through it together, and we began couples counseling. Ultimately, we mutually decided to terminate the pregnancy, a heartbreaking choice. Throughout this, he was supportive and allowed me the space to make my own decision without pressure. Since then, our relationship has been tumultuous. We’ve quarreled over seemingly minor issues (like my reluctance to share my Gatorade on the day of the procedure), which escalated into intense arguments where he resorted to name-calling. He later apologized, saying he felt overwhelmed and hadn’t been the support I needed. Although he attempted to be there for me after the procedure, I’ve felt emotionally, physically, and mentally neglected. He has been spending significant time with friends and family, frequently using our shared car for his own purposes while leaving me to arrange my own transportation. He has also steered clear of talking about the abortion or checking in on my emotional state, leaving me feeling unimportant. Despite repeatedly expressing my needs for affection, communication, and quality time, it seems like nothing has changed. Last night, everything came to a head. I shared my feelings of neglect and that my needs and boundaries were being overlooked. I told him that love alone is insufficient for a healthy relationship and that I’ve been unhappy for quite some time. I expressed my concerns that he might be inherently selfish and that I can’t envision a future together. Initially, he agreed to break up, stating he loves me and wants me to be happy. However, he later became emotional, insisting he doesn’t want to lose me and that our love is the most genuine connection he’s ever experienced. He pleaded for another chance, offering to implement changes, such as establishing a weekly date night on Mondays. He then sent me a message saying: "I know you’re done with me, but if you’d like to go on a date every Monday, please say yes. If not, just tell me what I want to hear. Even after I leave for my trip, I want to continue. I got too comfortable and didn’t put in the effort you deserve. Just forget everything else. Good night. ❤️ Do what’s best for you, love." Now I'm feeling conflicted. Breaking up was heartbreaking, yet it also brought a sense of relief. I’ve never ended a relationship with someone I loved before, and it's been emotionally taxing. Part of me contemplates giving him another chance since he appears willing to change, but another part feels drained and skeptical about whether anything will improve, especially since I’ve heard similar promises in the past. What should I do? How can I determine if it’s worthwhile to try again or if it’s best to walk away? **TL;DR** I (24F) ended my relationship with my boyfriend (28M) after months of conflict, neglect, and unmet needs following an unplanned pregnancy and abortion. He’s now pleading for another chance, claiming he will change, but I feel emotionally exhausted and uncertain if it's worth it. Should I give him another chance or move on? **NOTE:** Throughout our time together, there have been financial problems on his part, breaches of trust, and a past incident of cheating. He once downloaded an app to talk to another woman after a fight, claiming he needed an escape from the negativity. He said I should have focused on what I could do to prevent him from feeling that way (that was about seven months ago).