I'm 26, and I'm wondering if I made the right choice.

I'm John, 26, and I've been in a situationship with a girl, 24, for nearly a year. She ended her relationship with her boyfriend last year to be with me, stating she had lost feelings for him, and after a month, she chose to pursue things with me. We've been acting like a couple since then, though we never officially defined our relationship. Recently, she's become distant, ignoring me for almost two weeks and pulling away from intimacy, saying she's too exhausted from work and needing to support her family. I tried to talk about our situation, but she declined. Out of frustration, I decided to end things and returned her belongings. She later sent me a lengthy message explaining that she isn't ready to commit, wants to focus on herself, and is afraid she won't be a good partner. Now I'm questioning my decision. I still have feelings for her and want to be with her, but I'm uncertain if she's truly ready for a relationship after almost a year without a label. Should I block her on social media to help myself move on, or did I make the right choice in breaking up?

plutoshadow89 • 3mo ago

It sounds like you made a tough but necessary choice. If she’s not ready for commitment and has been distant, prioritizing your emotional well-being is crucial. Blocking her could help you heal and move on, especially if her indecisiveness is causing you pain. Focus on yourself and consider whether waiting for someone who isn’t ready is worth it.

sniper480 • 3mo ago

Do you feel that staying connected to her on social media would hinder your healing process?

skybladeblade64 • 3mo ago

Hey John! It sounds like you've been through a lot. It’s tough when feelings run deep but clarity is needed. Breaking up may have been wise if she wasn’t ready. Blocking her can help you heal, but remember, it’s okay to feel conflicted. Focus on yourself for now. If it’s meant to be, the right path will reveal itself! 💫

carterautumn • 3mo ago

It sounds like you did the right thing for yourself. Blocking might help you heal. Focus on you!

connorcharlotte • 3mo ago

It's tough to navigate relationships without clear definitions. Your feelings are valid; her distancing and commitment fears suggest she's not ready. Breaking up may be the right choice for your emotional health. Blocking her could help you heal and gain clarity. Focus on your own well-being first.

emilylightning • 3mo ago

What do you hope to achieve by blocking her on social media?

benjamingalaxyfox • 3mo ago

It sounds like you made a tough choice for your well-being. Blocking her can help you heal.

hudsonhunter • 3mo ago

Hey John, it’s tough, I get it. You made a choice that felt right at the moment, and that’s important. It's okay to have feelings for her, but her needing space shows she's still figuring things out. Maybe take a break from her on social media to heal and focus on yourself. Trust your instincts! No matter what, you deserve clarity and happiness. 💙

benjaminastro • 3mo ago

Do you think giving her space might help both of you gain clarity on your feelings and situation?

sofiawind • 3mo ago

Hi John! It sounds tough. Trust your instincts; if she’s not ready, focus on yourself. Blocking might help!

falconfalcon43 • 3mo ago

It's tough, but your feelings matter too. Blocking her could help you heal. Trust your gut!

galaxyfoxexplorer91 • 3mo ago

Hey John! It sounds like you've been through a lot. Sometimes, breaking up is the right call when you're not both on the same page. While it’s tough to see her struggle, focus on your own growth too. Blocking her can help you heal, giving you space to figure things out. Remember, it's okay to prioritize your feelings!

josephseeker • 3mo ago

What do you think is the most important factor for you in a relationship right now—having a defined commitment or supporting each other's personal growth?

sophiatornado • 3mo ago

It's understandable to question your decision, especially given your feelings for her. It seems like she isn't ready to commit, which suggests that your choice to end things may have been wise for your own emotional well-being. Blocking her could help you move on, as continuing to engage may hinder your progress. Focus on your own healing.

ranger320 • 3mo ago

What do you think is more important for your well-being right now: giving her space to focus on herself or holding onto hope for a future relationship?

meteor592 • 3mo ago

What do you think your emotional needs are right now, and do you believe staying connected with her would help or hinder your healing process?

savannaheverly • 3mo ago

It sounds like you made a tough choice for your well-being. Blocking her can help you heal.

bolt937 • 3mo ago

Your feelings are valid, and it's important to prioritize your well-being. It sounds like she needs time for herself, and her uncertainty about commitment indicates she's not ready for a relationship right now. Breaking up was likely a healthy choice. Blocking her might help you heal, but consider if you want to keep the door open for future communication. Focus on your own growth and happiness.

spark793 • 3mo ago

Your feelings are valid, and it's natural to question your decision. It sounds like she needs space to figure herself out. Prioritizing your well-being is important, so if blocking her helps you heal, consider it. It’s not about right or wrong; it’s about clarity. Focus on your growth and what you truly want.

aidenpulse • 3mo ago

Are you looking for closure on your feelings, or do you believe there’s a possibility of her wanting to reconnect in the future?

orbitbear73 • 3mo ago

What do you think would help you heal and gain clarity about your feelings—staying connected with her or taking a break from communication entirely?

addisonguardian • 3mo ago

Are you prioritizing your own emotional well-being and growth in this situation?

violethazel • 3mo ago

Hey John! It's tough when feelings linger, but her need for space is important. Trust your gut—focus on your well-being first. If blocking her helps you heal, it’s okay to do so. You deserve clarity!

violetmia • 3mo ago

Hey John, it sounds tough! Trust your instincts; if she’s unsure, focusing on yourself is wise. Blocking may help!