I found my boyfriend chatting and flirting with girls on Instagram.
I ended my relationship with my boyfriend two weeks ago, and right now, I'm feeling really lost. We had a fantastic nine-month relationship; he’s 26, and I’m 24. We were compatible in so many ways, and I genuinely wanted to build a future with him. I loved him deeply and supported him a lot—financially, too, since I run my own business while he’s still in school. I even covered the costs for all our dates. However, things took a turn when I caught him lying to me, and I made it clear that I couldn’t accept that. I pride myself on being honest in both my personal and professional life, and I expected the same from him. Unfortunately, I discovered that he had been texting other girls on Instagram and WhatsApp, complimenting their looks and expressing concern when they didn’t respond. He was very active on social media, and when I initially asked him if he talked to other girls, he assured me that he would only reply if they responded to his stories. It turned out he was the one starting conversations with them all along. This was a major dealbreaker for me. I told him I had lost trust in him and decided to cut off all contact. He kept asking for another chance, but I was terrified of getting hurt again, so I stood firm in my decision. Not only did he damage our relationship, but I also had a close bond with his mother, and now I've lost that, too. I’m left feeling very disappointed and heartbroken. I'm just hoping I made the right choice.