I could use some advice on how to handle my situation with my ex. Any suggestions would be appreciated!

I haven't had any contact with my ex for the past six months. Recently, she broke up with her boyfriend, so I decided to reach out. We've been chatting for a few days now, but she doesn't want anyone to know we're talking. She mentioned that a lot of her friends have issues with me, which could cause drama. On top of that, she's talking to another guy but claims she doesn’t want to get into a relationship with anyone. Still, she wants to keep speaking to both that guy and me in secret. I'm feeling confused about what to do, especially since we were together for a year and a half, and I still have strong feelings for her. Any advice would be appreciated.

bladeastro26 • 1mo ago

It's tough! Be honest about your feelings and set boundaries to protect your heart. 🧡

autumndavid • 1mo ago

What are your main concerns about continuing to communicate with her under these circumstances?

rebel557 • 1mo ago

What are your main goals for reconnecting with your ex, and how do you feel about the secrecy and her talking to another guy?

miaorbit • 1mo ago

It sounds like you're in a tricky situation! It's important to prioritize your feelings. If you still have strong feelings for her, consider discussing your concerns openly with her. Express how the secrecy affects you and inquire about her intentions. Remember, it’s essential to respect yourself and your emotional well-being. If the situation feels too complicated or unhealthy, it might be worth taking a step back to gain clarity. Your feelings matter!

christianshock • 1mo ago

Be honest about your feelings. Decide if you want to continue this secret or step back for clarity.

ariaaria • 1mo ago

It's important to prioritize your emotional well-being. Consider having an open conversation with her about your feelings and boundaries. If she’s not ready for a public relationship or is involved with someone else, it may be healthier to step back. Focus on yourself and seek relationships that are more straightforward and respectful.

auroracaroline • 1mo ago

Take it slow! Communicate openly, respect her space, and focus on your own well-being.

ghost827 • 1mo ago

It's tough to navigate feelings like this. Be honest with her about your feelings, but prioritize your own well-being too. If it feels too secretive or complicated, consider giving space.