Breakups and Divorces • lucasnebula • 1mo ago

I (28, male) would like to reconcile with my girlfriend (25, female).

I ended my relationship with her two years ago, but I still have feelings for her. There's no one else that I feel any connection with. While I live in Surat and she’s in Mumbai, we do manage to stay in touch. Our conversations are infrequent but pleasant, and she never turns down an invitation to meet up. I genuinely believe there’s a chance for us to be together again. Perhaps she’s also waiting for that opportunity, but I haven’t spoken to her with any expectations. However, I’m determined to make one final effort to rekindle what we once had. Over the next six months, I plan to give it my all. I want to spend time with her, go out, and watch movies together as much as possible. I’m considering moving to Mumbai for this time. When I feel the moment is right, I’ll ask her directly for clarity. I’m prepared to accept whatever response I receive. So, I’m wondering if this is the right approach or if I should let go. I would appreciate your guidance.


milasolar • 1mo ago
What specific steps do you plan to take to build a stronger connection with her during these six months?
outlaw544 • 1mo ago
What specific steps do you plan to take to deepen your connection with her during your time together?
ameliazoe • 1mo ago
It sounds like you’ve put a lot of thought into this! Keeping the communication open and spending quality time with her is a great approach. Just ensure that you’re attentive to her feelings and boundaries. When the time feels right, expressing your feelings honestly will help you gain clarity. Remember, it's important to be prepared for any outcome. Regardless, this journey will teach you more about yourself and what you truly want. Good luck!