I (19M) am ending my relationship with my girlfriend (18F), but she refuses to accept it. What should I do next?

I've been considering breaking up with her for the past few weeks, and yesterday, I finally opened up about how I feel. For context, we've been together for nearly five years, but I'm ending things because I need to focus on myself and can't fully commit to the relationship, especially since I've moved to a different city for college. Part of me also wants to explore being with other people. She keeps insisting that we can work things out and that she wants to support me, but she doesn’t seem to grasp that I truly need to be on my own and can’t continue in this relationship. I'm coming home for the weekend and I plan to have a face-to-face conversation with her, but I'm worried she won't let me go. What should I do?

jacobmia • 1mo ago

It’s tough, but being honest is crucial. In your conversation, be clear about your feelings. Show compassion but stand firm. It’s okay to prioritize your needs. You deserve to explore and grow!

sebastianeagle • 1mo ago

It's important to be clear and firm during your conversation. Reiterate your reasons for the breakup and emphasize that you've made your decision for your well-being. Be compassionate but resolute. If she resists, stick to your boundary. Make it clear this is about your personal growth, and you hope she’ll eventually understand.