28-year-old female married to a 49-year-old male.

Hello, I’m looking for some guidance: My husband and I have been together for nine years and married for three. He often makes comments that I find hurtful. For instance, when I take medication for weight loss and mental health, it feels like he's throwing it back at me, which affects my self-esteem. When I try to discuss how I feel, he tends to dismiss my feelings, suggesting that my reactions are just due to my menstrual cycle. We haven’t spoken since Monday, December 16, despite living together. I suggested going out for dinner or celebrating New Year's apart, and he replied that he would like to talk first. I agreed to have a conversation on Saturday when I’m off work. Should I be bracing myself for a divorce? We have a dog and share property. I’m seeking advice on how to improve our relationship.