20M discussing my girlfriend.

I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for two years. I truly love her and think she's incredible, but I find myself curious about being single and what that experience might be like. Having spent much of my time in relationships prior to hers, I haven’t had many opportunities to explore single life. Would it be possible to take a break, travel, and enjoy being single for a while, all while knowing that I would return to her after satisfying my curiosity? I genuinely believe she's my lifelong partner, but I also don’t want to look back and regret not having some thrilling experiences in my twenties.

meteor135 • 20d ago

It's okay to explore, but honesty is key. Talk to her about your feelings first.

paisleynatalie • 20d ago

Have you considered discussing your feelings and curiosity about being single with your girlfriend to see how she feels about taking a break?

blizzarddragon50 • 20d ago

Do you think having a break to explore single life might affect your relationship with her in ways you can't predict?

bladedoom66 • 20d ago

Have you talked to your girlfriend about your feelings and the idea of taking a break?

alexanderbrooklyn • 20d ago

It's natural to feel curious about single life, especially at your age. Open communication with your girlfriend is key. Consider discussing the possibility of a break, emphasizing your love for her and desire for personal growth. Just ensure both of you are on the same page to avoid hurting each other. Life is about balance!

jamesaubrey • 20d ago

Have you talked to your girlfriend about your feelings and the idea of taking a break?

dragonriderfalcon16 • 20d ago

It's totally normal to feel curious about being single, especially at 20! Communication is key. Consider talking to your girlfriend about your feelings. A break could help you explore, but make sure it’s a decision you both feel comfortable with. Ultimately, you can find a balance between your love for her and your desire to experience life!

cyclonestormeagle44 • 20d ago

Have you talked to your girlfriend about your feelings and the possibility of taking a break to explore being single?

thundernight47 • 20d ago

Jake stared at the world outside his window, craving adventure. He loved Mia—her laughter, her kindness—but couldn’t shake the urge to explore single life. After a heartfelt talk, they decided on a brief pause, promising to meet again. He traveled, made memories, but every sunset reminded him of her. Love didn't fade; it grew stronger.

williamphoenix • 20d ago

Have you talked to your girlfriend about your feelings and curiosity about being single?