What should I do if I, a 28-year-old man, discovered that a 24-year-old woman was recording me without my knowledge?
I’ll keep this brief. I’ve been seeing a woman for about a month. Recently, while I was intimate with her, I noticed she had her phone out, pointed down at me. When I asked her what she was doing, she pretended not to understand the question but later admitted she was recording a video of me. I requested that she delete it, but things became a bit awkward, and I decided not to confront her too much. The next day, when I dropped her off, I asked her again to delete the videos, and she seemed surprised that it upset me. I explained that it was a boundary for me and attempted to address it calmly. Fast forward a day later—she has since apologized, but I haven’t really responded. The issue is, I didn’t actually check to see if she deleted them. What’s a respectful and straightforward way for me to confirm she deleted the photos—maybe by asking for screenshots? It feels like a significant breach of trust, especially at this early stage. Edit: When I spoke to her the second time, she claimed it was just a picture, but it turned out to be six videos.