Given our online activities, is there a strategy that suits your needs in this situation? We've been together for 7 years – I'm 42 (female) and he's 37 (male) – but now I'm feeling anxious.

I'm a 42-year-old female, and my partner is a 37-year-old male. We've been together for seven years. In the past, we've talked about pornography, and he assured me he would stop using it. While I believe he uses it less now, I recently mentioned that Instagram shows the reels people like. Today, I noticed he appeared as a suggested new account; it has no posts, is currently public, and lacks a profile picture. His sister and three of his friends follow him. How should I express my concerns? Should I follow him first or ask him about it? In short, I'm a 42-year-old woman worried about my 37-year-old partner's online activity.