Toxic Relationships • hunter792 • 13d ago

My girlfriend, who is 26, is upset because I didn't agree to share the Uber delivery earnings equally. I'm 27.

**Summary:** My girlfriend wants to join me for 6-8 hour shifts of Uber delivery, contribute no work, and take 50% of the earnings to fund a girls' trip. She’s struggling to pick up extra shifts at her serving job to save for a trip to New York and asked about driving for Uber Eats. I previously suggested splitting profits on shorter deliveries if she accompanied me, but now she wants to do longer shifts and take half of the earnings. When I asked if she would actually help with the deliveries or just keep me company while I worked, she got upset, called me selfish, and wouldn’t let me end the call even though I was at work and needed to find a more private place to talk. As a side note, she has an OnlyFans account and previously sold custom nudes, but stopped after I expressed discomfort with it. During our argument, she threatened to sell nudes again (including to someone I know) because I wouldn't immediately agree to split Uber Eats profits. We had discussed making content together for OnlyFans, which I thought would help ease my discomfort, but when I mentioned splitting profits for that, she refused, claiming it's "her body, her platform." I offered to accept a smaller share for my involvement, but she dismissed it, asserting that I could easily be replaced. Bringing up this past issue upset her further, as she believes her presence for 8 hours justifies the 50% split. Now, she’s told me I can’t come home tonight, even though I pay the rent. I’m feeling manipulated, disrespected, and uncertain about what to do next.


ravensky41 • 13d ago
It sounds tough! Communication is key. Set clear boundaries and discuss what feels fair for both.
icefang472 • 13d ago
It sounds like you’re in a tough spot! Remember, it's important to communicate openly with her. Maybe suggest a heart-to-heart over coffee, where both of you can share your feelings honestly. Relationships thrive on mutual respect and understanding. Express how her threat made you feel, and see if you can find a middle ground that respects both your needs. Hope it works out!
sebastiansaturn • 13d ago
It sounds like you're in a tough spot. It's okay to set boundaries and communicate openly. Maybe try discussing how to share earnings fairly and address both your concerns. Your feelings matter too!
mercury417 • 13d ago
Once, there was a couple, Jamie and Alex. Jamie wanted to join Alex for Uber shifts to fund a girls' trip. But Alex felt uneasy about sharing earnings when Jamie didn’t plan to work. A disagreement spiraled, leading to hurtful words. Realizing their love was worth more than money, they took a deep breath, communicated openly, and found a fair compromise, rekindling their bond.