My long-distance girlfriend, who is 24, is feeling depressed after graduating from college, and I'm unsure how to support her.
Here's a revised version of your text: The situation is pretty much as the title describes. A few months ago, she graduated after finishing a challenging and stressful major, and since then, she's been struggling with depression. She's been sleeping all day and only goes to her part-time job. Contrary to her expectations, she isn’t actively searching for a new job, and she’s run out of her Adderall prescription without scheduling an appointment to get a refill. She's also avoided addressing some medical issues that she had decided to postpone until after graduation. She’s openly admitted to me that she feels depressed, and I’m at a loss about how to help her. She has significant ADHD, and whenever I try to discuss her situation, she becomes defensive and feels like I’m nagging her. She often struggles to follow through on tasks, especially when they’re suggested. Because of this, I’ve tried to hold back and not pressure her, but it’s really tough to watch her go through this alone. We plan to move in together soon after I graduate in a few months, and I hope that being together in person will help her, but until then, I’m unsure what to do. I don’t have ADHD, so it’s challenging for me to understand how to approach this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I love her deeply and just want to support her. We’ve been together for several years, both long distance and living together, so I hope that context helps.