[54m][33f] My wife has developed an attachment to an online 'M Domme' and is no longer interested in being close to me.

My wife began an online financial relationship with a Domme over three years ago. Initially, it was purely financial, but over time, he has profoundly influenced her and changed her personality. She has removed all the jewelry I gifted her during our marriage, including her wedding rings, and replaced it with his much more expensive pieces, such as her "chastity key" necklace. I suspect she may have also been unfaithful, as it seems she had a fling with her personal trainer. Now, we live like roommates while she and him constantly communicate and "play" during the day while I'm at work. We have three kids, all under 16, and splitting up isn’t financially feasible. She has been honest about not knowing where our relationship is headed, but she still claims to love me. I love her deeply and just want her back in my life. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

aubreytornado • 10d ago

In a quiet evening, you both sat on the couch, the dim light casting shadows on the walls. You took her hand, gently. "I miss us," you whispered. "Can we talk?" She looked at you, eyes softening. A heartfelt conversation unfolded, with honesty blooming. You expressed your love, your hurt, and your hopes. Slowly, she began to share her feelings too. Perhaps it was the start of finding each other again.

jackemma • 10d ago

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. It's tough to see someone you love drift away. Consider having an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings and concerns. Couples therapy could help you both navigate these emotions. Focus on rebuilding your connection, and prioritize your family. You're not alone in this!

venuspulse12 • 10d ago

It sounds incredibly tough to feel that distance grow between you two. Perhaps consider gently sharing your feelings with her, focusing on your love and desire for connection. Suggest counseling to navigate these changes together. With time and open dialogue, you might find a path to rekindle your bond. Remember, love can reshape over time.