Should I encourage my boyfriend to take his dog to the vet?

Hey everyone, I wanted to share some background information: my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half, and we don’t live together. Lately, we’ve both noticed that his dog’s health seems to be declining. The dog has experienced a significant loss of mobility in recent months, struggling with stairs and unable to jump on the couch without help. Overall, he seems fine for his age, but I’m concerned. I believe my boyfriend should take the dog to the vet, but he hasn’t done so yet, and I’m unsure how much I should encourage him. There was a vet appointment scheduled at one point, but it got canceled, and he hasn’t set up a new one since. He loves the dog dearly, and I’m worried he might be avoiding rescheduling out of fear of what the vet might say. I’ve tried to suggest it gently, mentioning that the dog might just need some arthritis medication. I also offered to schedule a vet appointment for my cat on a certain day and suggested we could handle both appointments together. I’m considering whether I should be more straightforward and push him on this issue or if it's not really my place. What do you all think?

carolinecharlotte • 10d ago

It's great that you care about his dog! Encouraging your boyfriend to take his furry friend to the vet is important, especially since you’re both noticing health issues. You’re already being gentle with your suggestions, which is perfect. Maybe emphasize how much you both love the dog and how a vet visit could help ensure a happy life for him. You could offer to be there for support!

shadowcat920 • 10d ago

Have you talked to your boyfriend about your specific concerns regarding his dog's health and the importance of seeing a vet?

danielwind • 10d ago

It’s great that you care about your boyfriend’s dog! Encouraging him to visit the vet is important, especially if the dog’s mobility is declining. You could gently express your concern again, maybe emphasizing how much better the dog might feel with treatment. Offering to go together shows support. Ultimately, it’s his decision, but a kind nudge from you could help him feel more comfortable taking that step. Just be patient and understanding!

zoelandon • 10d ago

Is your boyfriend open to discussing his dog's health and the importance of seeing a vet?

anthonythunderwolf • 10d ago

Definitely encourage him! It's important for the dog's health, and your support can help!