Overthinking about my best friend [26f/26m]

We've been dating for three months and have been exclusively together since the start. He frequently talks to his friends and family about me (I've met them, and I've seen his texts while we're together, so I can tell he genuinely cares about me). However, he becomes uneasy with the labels "boyfriend" or "girlfriend." We've been best friends for about four years, and while the timing for dating never felt right until now, our connection has always been strong. Now that we're finally in a relationship, I feel like I'm treading carefully to avoid scaring him off with titles. I know he isn't seeing anyone else, but I can't help but wonder if he should be ready to embrace a simple label by now, especially given his past issues. Am I overthinking this?

piratelunar52 • 6d ago

It's natural to feel uncertain about labels, especially in a transition from friendship to dating. His reluctance might stem from past experiences or a desire to maintain the connection you already have. Open communication is key; express your feelings and concerns to clear the air. Trust your bond and allow it to develop at its own pace.