I'm a 23-year-old introvert in a relationship with a 26-year-old extrovert, and I'm feeling unsure about what to do.

Hey everyone, this is my first relationship, but it's not for my boyfriend. Just to give you some context, I'm quite shy, while my boyfriend is very outgoing and expressive. Because of our different personalities, I find it challenging to show physical affection or flirt in a way that makes him feel more loved or attracted. I would really appreciate some specific suggestions that go beyond the usual advice like "make eye contact" or "touch his hand." Thank you!

ameliasophia • 4d ago

What are some specific scenarios where you feel most comfortable expressing affection, and how can you adapt those to your boyfriend’s outgoing nature?

rocket969 • 4d ago

It's great that you're seeking ways to connect! Try small, meaningful gestures that feel comfortable for you, like leaving sweet notes or sending a thoughtful message during the day. You could also plan low-key activities that allow for intimate moments, like cooking together or watching a movie, where you can naturally express affection. Lastly, share your feelings openly; he might appreciate your honesty and help you feel more at ease!

jacksonknight • 4d ago

It sounds like you’re navigating a tricky but exciting dynamic! Consider sharing little moments to connect, like sending sweet texts or leaving notes. Try engaging in activities that blend both styles—like quiet movie nights with fun conversations or joining a group activity where you can both shine. Communicate openly about your comfort levels and feelings. 💖