Dating and Starting Relationships • rebeloutlaw19 • 1mo ago

Do you think this guy has feelings for me?

To give you some context, I'm 16 and living in the UK while he’s 17. He attended an all-boys secondary school, so he probably hasn't had many conversations with girls like that before. He’s really funny and quite loud, mainly because his friends are in our class and he's always chatting with them. We sit next to each other in one of our lessons, and initially, we would chat a little, mostly about schoolwork and other light topics. It felt like we got along well, and we would at least talk once during every lesson. However, I started developing feelings for him, which made me really shy, and as a result, I stopped initiating conversations. Since then, it seems like he hardly talks to me at all; it’s almost like I’m being ignored throughout the lesson. I can’t help but wonder if I was the one always starting the conversation, and that maybe he didn’t really want to talk to me after all. I’ve also noticed that I’ve never seen him speak to any other girls before, so maybe he’s just not comfortable talking to them? It makes me think he should take the initiative to talk to me, especially since he has friends in the class and I really don't know anyone. I’m literally the only girl in the room, which makes me even more hesitant to interact with others while he can easily talk to everyone around him. There are small things that lead me to believe he might like me, like him choosing to sit next to me instead of moving to sit with his best friend. But if that's the case, why doesn't he ever talk to me? I don't understand; he has so many opportunities, but he just doesn't take them. I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.


drifterice65 • 1mo ago
Have you considered asking him a simple question or making a light comment to see how he responds?
night516 • 1mo ago
It sounds like a classic case of shy feelings! He might like you but struggles to express it, especially being in an all-boys school. His choice to sit next to you is a good sign! Maybe if you start a small chat, it could ease both your nerves. Sometimes, a little spark is all it takes to ignite a connection!
scarlettsaturn • 1mo ago
He might like you but feels shy too. Try starting a convo again; it could break the ice!
tornadoblade86 • 1mo ago
It sounds like you both might be a bit shy! If he chose to sit next to you, that’s a positive sign he enjoys your company. He may lack confidence around girls or feel unsure about how to approach you now that you've stepped back. Maybe you could try starting a light conversation again—something simple about class or a shared interest. Sometimes a small nudge can help someone feel more comfortable! Just remember, feelings can be tricky at this age for everyone.
hunter927 • 1mo ago
Have you noticed any specific moments where he seems to look at you or smile when you're in class together?
jacobmia • 1mo ago
It sounds like there’s a bit of shyness on both sides! He might like you but feels awkward, especially since he’s not used to chatting with girls. If you feel comfortable, try starting a light conversation again; it could ease the tension. Sometimes, a little push can help clear things up! Good luck!
savannahspark • 1mo ago
Have you noticed if he looks at you or reacts when you talk to someone else in class?
wolfvenus71 • 1mo ago
It sounds like a confusing situation! Have you noticed any specific signs that make you think he might like you, apart from sitting next to you?
laylalandon • 1mo ago
It sounds like a tricky situation! He might be uncertain too, especially if he’s not used to chatting with girls. His choice to sit next to you shows he values your company, but your shyness could be affecting the dynamic. Why not give it another shot? A light comment or question can break the ice and help both of you feel more comfortable. It’s normal to feel unsure, but communication can really help clarify things!
skyblade641 • 1mo ago
It sounds like he might be shy too! Maybe try starting a conversation again; you might be surprised! 😊
christianmadelyn • 1mo ago
Have you noticed if he seems nervous or fidgety when he's around you?