Breakups and Divorces • charlottetornado • 15d ago

Reconnected with me after two months of no contact (NC) [28M] [28F].

I [28M] recently ended my 3-year relationship with my girlfriend [28F]. It came as a surprise to her, as I made the decision abruptly. Despite her efforts to reconcile for a whole week after the breakup, I remained firm in my stance, explaining that I had lost my feelings for her. She didn't do anything wrong; in fact, I regret how I handled the situation. Eventually, she seems to have accepted the breakup and found closure, as we've had no contact for the past two months. Today, I noticed that she requested to add me back on Instagram. I'm uncertain what this means—whether she's moved on or not. We have mutual friends, and I'm curious about what she's been up to, especially since she's been largely out of touch with everyone since we split.


isabellalandon • 15d ago
It sounds like a complicated situation. Her request to reconnect could mean she’s seeking closure or feels ready to be friends. However, it’s also possible she still has unresolved feelings. Take your time to assess your own feelings before responding, and be cautious about reopening old wounds.
cool361 • 15d ago
It sounds like she might be open to reconnecting, but it’s hard to say for sure. Maybe start with a friendly message to gauge her feelings. Just take it slow!
brooklynamelia • 15d ago
It could mean she's ready to reconnect as friends. Maybe take it slow and see how she feels!
skylarhunter • 15d ago
What do you think her reconnecting on Instagram signifies about her feelings post-breakup?
lunar746 • 15d ago
It's great that she reached out! It could mean she's open to reconnecting as friends or just checking in. Take your time to assess her vibe and see how you both feel. Good luck!
drifter826 • 15d ago
It sounds like she might be open to reconnecting or just checking in. Maybe start with a friendly message to see how she’s doing. Keep it light and see where it goes!
froststar85 • 15d ago
She might want to reconnect or catch up. Just take it slow and see where it goes!
wraith789 • 15d ago
How do you feel about the possibility of reconnecting with her after two months of no contact?