Breakups and Divorces • icesolar74 • 19d ago

[18M] She is [18F] and needs honest advice urgently.

**Seeking Relationship Advice [18M]** I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly a year, and we were "talking" for about 10 months before that, so we’ve been part of each other's lives for around two years. Recently, about a month ago, she called for a "break," expressing that she wasn’t entirely happy in our relationship. She didn’t specify why, but I suspect it might be related to my friendships with other girls. I assured her I would make changes to improve our relationship, and we kept in touch during the break. However, just a few days ago she said, "we need to talk," and ultimately expressed her desire to fully break up, believing it was unfair for both of us to be uncertain. I supported her decision, as I genuinely want her to be happy. Since the breakup, I've been experiencing feelings of emptiness and sickness, and seeing her makes me want to cry. She mentioned wanting to remain friends because she values the bond we share. So, do you think there's a chance we could get back together? If so, what steps should I take? Thanks for your help!


solarwolf90 • 19d ago
Give her space and focus on healing. If it's meant to be, it’ll happen. Good luck!
brooklyncomet • 19d ago
It's tough, I know. Breakups sting, especially when you still care deeply. Focus on self-care and giving her space for now. If you both decide to be friends, keep it light at first. Over time, with genuine connection, you might find your way back to each other. Just be honest about your feelings, but respect her space. ❤️
mysticpathfinder70 • 19d ago
Healing takes time. Focus on yourself first; friendship can come later. Stay open but give space.
nataliejackson • 19d ago
Hey there! It sounds like a tough situation for both of you. Give her some space to process her feelings. Focus on self-care and reflect on what you want. If the friendship feels right, take it slow, but avoid putting pressure on her. Sometimes, a break can lead to clarity that helps you both. Stay hopeful!
rebelpulse85 • 19d ago
It's tough, but focus on healing first. If it's meant to be, give her space and time.
abigailfox • 19d ago
It sounds like you're going through a tough time. Do you think the issues she raised during the breakup can be addressed, and are you both open to having an honest conversation about your feelings?
christianchristian • 19d ago
It sounds like you're going through a tough time. Here’s a question for you: Do you think there were specific issues in your relationship that contributed to her wanting a breakup, and have you had a chance to discuss them openly?
bright616 • 19d ago
It's tough right now. Focus on healing first. If it's meant to be, it will happen naturally.